It’s not all fun and games being a widow, you know. Doing what I want when I want has drawbacks that I’ll bet you married people with ‘widow envy’ have never considered. No partner means no compromise and, granted, on …
Which one is Tony? Which is his toy? It’s two and a half years since Sheri and Old Mike talked me into taking Tony into my life. Remember Sheri predicted she’d either be a hero or I’d hate her? …
“Bones” became “Tony” the very first day. My friend Henry suggested “Find a name that rhymes with Bones. That would make for an easy transition.” Bone, roam, Scone, Ton…Tony! My new roommate licked my nose. He liked it! He really …
Old Mike Visits Tony Boloney March 2010 It took some coaxing but my good friend, and next door neighbor, Sheri convinced me we should follow Old Mike back to his house where one year old Morkie named Bones was waiting …
After the kids moved out I continued to nag Jimmy for a dog. My empty nest and I didn’t want a dog now but it gave me leverage for things I did want. Over time I perfected the guilt trip. …
Dear Carol, I am a gay man (28) who was in a committed relationship with Dick (really) (40) for three years. Four months ago he was in a fatal car crash. Thankfully (for him) he died on impact. For me, …
The other night an old friend said: “My mother passed away ten years ago. Within six months my Dad died, too. He died of a broken heart.” I asked her how old he was. “84” was her answer. I felt …
Dear Poor Widow Me, I lost my husband almost three years ago in a small plane accident. We were married 60 years and have a 44 year old daugher, Lisa. (NOW she is 44) Even though I recently turned 83 …
Dear Carol, I’m “Human Bob” – you posted my e-mail yesterday. I was thrilled to see it in print, but more importantly, I was sneaky and had my friend cut and paste your blog site to send to my boss …
Dear Carol, Can we have lunch? I am loath to put in an email what is going on in my mind and heart right now. Yes, even under a pseudonym, it is still too embarrassing. I respect your opinion very …